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Writer's pictureEsther Nava

How to Cultivate Faith and Resilience in Times of Comfort



When life feels stable, it’s easy to let go of faith practices like Emuna (faith) and Bitachon (trust), but peaceful moments offer a unique opportunity for spiritual and emotional growth. Emuna and Bitachon aren’t just for navigating hardship; they are tools that help us cultivate resilience and prepare for future challenges. Here’s how to embrace Emuna and Bitachon during comfortable times, weaving them into daily life for a more grounded, connected, and meaningful experience.

Mindful awareness is essential to deepen faith and resilience, even when things are going well. Rather than taking the good times for granted, you can turn each moment of comfort into a reminder of the Divine’s generosity. Mindfulness is not only a core practice in modern psychology; it’s an ancient spiritual discipline. By developing a gratitude practice, you acknowledge that every blessing, from daily stability to moments of joy, is not self-given but a Divine gift. Jewish tradition supports this with practices like daily blessings, a reminder to view each positive moment as an opportunity for gratitude.


In calm times, we also have the chance to deepen reflective practices and set intentions for future growth. When life is free of turmoil, you can examine your long-term values and spiritual aspirations. Rabbi Nachman of Breslov encouraged personal reflection through Tefilah (prayer) and Hitbodedut (personal meditation). This quiet time builds the mental and spiritual stamina needed to face challenges with resilience. As we set intentions, we gain clarity, focusing on what truly matters rather than becoming caught up in the small distractions of daily life. Reflection in peaceful times is a powerful form of preparation, strengthening the soul for when comfort inevitably gives way to difficulty.


Alongside reflection, cultivating humility is a valuable practice. Comfort can sometimes create a false sense of control, making us feel independent and detached from our reliance on the Divine. But Bitachon invites us to view our stability as temporary and dependent on a higher power. Humility, in this sense, is also an emotional practice that helps us stay balanced. When we recognize that life’s ease is ultimately in Divine hands, we protect ourselves from the disillusionment that can arise if things suddenly change. Accepting that comfort is a gift, not a given, keeps us rooted in gratitude and trust.


Times of comfort are also ideal for strengthening kindness and generosity. With fewer immediate personal challenges, you’re more available to give to others, building a “reserve” of compassion that spiritually enriches both you and your community. Engaging in acts of kindness and mitzvot (good deeds) reinforces Emuna by focusing on the value of helping others, reinforcing the notion that our lives are connected and meaningful beyond our own needs. Rabbi Nachman emphasized that engaging in kindness creates a form of “spiritual currency,” a way to build resilience for future times of struggle.


In quiet moments, learning and personal growth also become meaningful investments. Instead of waiting for adversity to prompt reflection, you can use peaceful times to delve into spiritual study. Engaging with Torah study or wisdom texts reinforces Emuna by building intellectual and spiritual awareness. When we approach learning with an open heart, we’re strengthening our capacity to face life with resilience, turning spiritual knowledge into an anchor for future challenges. Studying when things are calm also serves as a reminder that we’re on a lifelong path of growth, deepening our connection to Divine wisdom and preparing the mind for both calm and turbulent times.


One of the simplest yet most impactful ways to incorporate Emuna and Bitachon daily is to make them regular habits, not just ideas to turn to in emergencies. Just as psychological practices like cognitive reframing encourage a proactive, positive mindset, reciting affirmations of faith or brief prayers reinforces a mindset of trust. With each affirmation, you’re building “spiritual muscle memory” that helps you trust in the Divine even when things feel uncertain. This continuous practice of Emuna becomes a default perspective, enabling you to respond to life with a steady heart, regardless of the situation.


Emuna and Bitachon are invaluable at every stage of life, not just during challenges. By practicing mindfulness, cultivating gratitude, fostering humility, and building kindness, you transform times of comfort into periods of profound spiritual and emotional growth. These practices not only fortify the soul but also create a foundation of resilience and readiness, helping you navigate life’s inevitable fluctuations with greater strength and grace.


So, the next time you find yourself in a season of comfort, remember that this is an opportunity to grow. Embrace Emuna and Bitachon as daily companions, strengthening your inner world to face whatever lies ahead with faith, balance, and resilience. Each day becomes an invitation to deepen your spiritual connection, making both the peaceful and challenging times equally rich in meaning and purpose.


As I reflect on the idea of Emuna and Bitachon, it strikes me that these practices—mindfulness, gratitude, humility, continuous learning—aren’t merely responses to comfort or challenge. They are fundamental, grounding principles that transcend circumstances. Whether I find myself in a season of ease or difficulty, these values would guide me all the same. They’re not simply tools for resilience in tough times or ways to enhance appreciation in good times; they are a whole-life approach.


By embracing these practices continuously, I cultivate a steady, inner resilience. In moments of comfort, these habits deepen my gratitude, helping me stay humble and connected. During times of challenge, they offer an anchor, reminding me that I’ve already built this strength within. Through this constant application, Emuna and Bitachon become second nature—habits of heart and mind that accompany me wherever life leads.


In both Jewish thought and psychological wisdom, this timeless practice of staying grounded in one’s values is foundational. By nurturing Emuna and Bitachon in all seasons, I create a life of balance and meaning, one that supports me with grace through both the highs and the lows.


In my book Pick Me Up HaShem, you’ll find many prayers that explore how HaShem is constantly drawing us closer to Him, inviting us into a deeper relationship through prayer and reflection. These prayers are designed to help you connect with the divine presence in a way that transcends mere requests and taps into the true purpose of prayer.

If you’re ready to dive deeper into these spiritual truths, consider studying Kabbalah, the mystical tradition that unlocks the profound secrets of our reality and draws us closer to HaShem’s divine wisdom. Delve into teachings that illuminate the “why” behind the Torah, connecting the layers of Creation in a synergized whole and offering a glimpse of HaShem in a way no other study can. From the timeless wisdom of Rabbi Chaim Vital and the Arizal to the unifying insights of Rabbi Sar-Shalom Sharabi (Rashash), Kabbalah not only transforms your spiritual understanding but also brings peace, protection, and redemption closer to our world. Sponsor my study in this sacred tradition and receive its blessings for sustenance, health, and family, ensuring that the powerful light of Kabbalah shines in your merit.


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